How important is kissing? Plus, ways to kiss!

Such a simple act, yet can be a highly intimate experience. Some people think of kissing as just that…kissing. Others find it one of the most vulnerable actions between two people. I’m always curious to hear about how other people view things, and I have to admit…this one fascinates the hell out of me.

I can peck my hubby goodbye. I can kiss my mother hello. I kiss my children to show them that I love them. I can excite my man so much by one simple kiss it turns from foreplay to mouth sex within a few seconds. There are all different kinds of kisses, and many more reasons behind the kiss. Today I want to talk about kissing for sexual pleasure. More exactly, how to turn kissing into an experience to remember.

I’m going to take it for granted that you’re all knowledgeable about a kiss growing into a prelude to sex. But, let’s start with just the act of kissing. I love to go into a kiss knowing that sex might not come from it. If that’s the case, I want the kiss to be a sexual act of itself. Here are a few games you can try.

1. Agree to place your lips on your partner’s lips. Keep those mouths closed. Now without opening your mouth, give each other the best kiss you can. Don’t rush it! Listen to all those delicious feelings building up. How long can you go without your mind screaming for you to taste, to explore, to delve right in and get your fix?

2. Have one person hold back, and the other one be the driver. Explore the other person, put them at your mercy and your goal is to do everything possible to see what they like. Oh, you’ll be able to tell! Breathing comes faster, lips start to move, a tongue accidentally comes out of hiding. Is your body waking up? Now change roles, and enjoy your partner showing you how excited your kiss made them.

3. Kisses are something easy to do in public. Do you like games? Well, how about going out and finding ways to “hide” your kisses. Behind trees, behind people’s backs, in the dressing room at Nordstroms! You’ll love the way secret kisses draw you close to your partner.

4. This is the ultimate, but it does take practice and trust in the other person. Bring each other to orgasm by ONLY kissing. Sound impossible? Hardly. It does take practice, time, and a willingness to let your mind escape. Tongues become cocks, mouths become pussies. Remember…it doesn’t matter the size, it’s how you use it. Don’t give up on this one. Once you figure it out, it’s well worth the kiss.

Last thing I want to say…kisses say a lot. No words are necessary. Become aware of what you are saying with your kiss.

Now, go out and kiss!